well of all things I dont know if I am smart ot stupid. I did all the searching to find a solution to my isues, Hamachi stating I have a VPN isue through Microsoft saying there was a IP isue. Tried to reconfigure IP, tried to find anything that would tell me why I cant get it to work. Finaly I decided to go to my download and reinstall. Not remove and reinstall but reinstall current version. IT WORKED! no more caution signs next to group members names. so who would have guessed it just needed refreshing after Microsoft's latest update.
Problem fixed.